Overcoming poverty with a smile
Ricky Auler is all smiles when he comes into his weekly Circles of Hope meetings at the First United Methodist Church.
Greeted by his fellow Circles of Hope leaders, he takes his seat in a group of 13 members, each of who are there for the same reason he is — to overcome poverty.
“I look forward to my Wednesday evenings at church because of Circles,” Auler said, adding that he usually attended church before the meetings.
Since September, Auler has been a group “leader,” which, in the Circles program, is the person determined to change his or her life. This has created a support system of allies to help him achieve his goals
The program helps families get completely out of poverty and builds new systems of support that will help them achieve economic stability. Upon graduating from the program, circle leaders have the option of becoming an ally for another person.
“This was exactly what I had been praying for — to get out of poverty and help others," Auler said. "(The program) teaches us to be more self sufficient and to not depend on the government.”
Auler, 41, currently works for Lake Junaluska Public Works in the sanitation department, where he has worked since March.
With help from Circles of Hope, Auler is currently weaning his family off of the $470 in food stamps he previously received. Today, he is focused on making ends meet on his own, without the government help.
“It’s aggravating and hard to budget,” Auler said. “There are times you want to give up. But Circles showed me I’m not the only one in the world who suffers. And I also get to see my fellow members and how their lives are getting better.”
Auler is currently engaged to his fiancé Cathy and has assumed a full-time role as being a stepfather to her 11-year-old daughter, MaKayla. Cathy works at Walmart and attends Haywood Community College full time.
Without the help of food stamps, Auler said it was often a struggle to have enough food on the table.
“Sometimes when you have an 11-year-old going through a growth spurt, it’s hard,” Auler said. “But you just have to tighten your belt and deal with the hunger pains. You have to make sure she has food. You don’t always want to give up (some of) your food, but she’s a child so you have to suck it up and do it anyway.”
Feeling hungry isn’t a new feeling for Auler, and it’s why he does everything he can to make sure MaKayla is fed.
“It’s been a struggle all my life — even as a child,” he said. “Soemtimes the only meal I got was at school, so I went to bed hungry. I guess it makes it easier now when there’s not enough. I can eat smaller portions and be happy so MaKayla can have seconds.”
Auler said the fellowship and camaraderie that came from his church and his Circle group is what was helping him the most.
“I have a great church group and my ally George Thompson is what keeps me going,” Auler said. “And of course God — I owe it all to him.”
Besides wearing a big smile, Auler said his friends and family have noticed some changes in him since being a part of the Circles program.
“Everyone keeps telling me, ‘You’ve changed, you seem happy and you don’t seem so stressed,’” Auler said. “It helped me come out of my shell. And I think it’s just me knowing that God answered my prayers.”
Circle of Hope leaders are expected to graduate from the program on Jan. 28, at which time leaders can work toward becoming an ally for another person in the future.
Auler said he planned on becoming an ally.
“If nothing else, I will bring humor,” Auler said with a laugh.
In addition, Auler plans to attend HCC in the future to finish his degree in electrical engineering.
“That is one of my goals, but sometimes I don’t feel that it will happen,” Auler said. “But it’s whatever God wants. I’m going to give it my all.”
Circles of Hope is always seeking allies to help support individuals who desire a life free from poverty. Anyone interested in becoming an ally should RSVP to the training by calling 828 452-1447 ext. 134 or emailing firstname.lastname@example.org